Which probably says a lot about me right there because it's really not that big a deal. LOL.
So last night my hubby and I were laying in bed. He was watching TV and I was looking at Facebook on my phone. I ran across something that was interesting to me and I said, "Oh, Dom!" He asked me what and then I realized he wouldn't be able to care less about what I just saw. It just wasn't something he would be interested in at all so I said, "Nevermind. It's not something you would be interested in."
He rolled over and started watching TV again.
Am I the only one that is a big deal to?? LOL. He just ROLLED OVER AND WATCHED TV. I couldn't shut my mind down. I kept wondering how in the heck he could just roll over and watch TV. I would NEVER be able to do that. I would HAVE to know what the other person was going to show me, even if it wasn't something I would be interested in. Not knowing would drive me batty. Eat me alive until I had a nervous breakdown. Okay, maybe not THAT bad but here I was driving myself crazy just because he didn't want to know. I knew what I'd just seen. It really wasn't important so there was zero reason for it to be obsessing about.
Still, I couldn't help it. I had to ask, "HOW DO YOU DO THAT???"
He rolls over to face me again and asks "What?" honestly having no clue what I meant. I told him that there was no way I could have just rolled over and watched TV without asking what he'd almost told me, even if he knew it was something I wouldn't be interested in. It's just who I am. Curiosity would get the best of me. His answer? "I trust you. If you said I wouldn't be interested, I wont."
Umm… What the heck?? I trust him too, that doesn't mean I wouldn't want to know. LOL. So I told him that and his next reply was even crazier… He said, "So is this your way of telling me you want me to ask you what you were going to show me?"
Was it? I thought about it and it wasn't. It really wasn't. I kind of didn't want to tell him anymore because I knew he would think it was silly but I still didn't understand how he couldn't want to know. So I told him no, that it wasn't, and explained my confusion again. He laughed, rolled over and started to watch TV again.
And never, EVER asked what I had seen on Facebook. It still boggles my mind! LOL.
So now I'm curious about the rest of you. Do you think this is a guy/girl kind of thing or a nyrae is crazy-nosey and has to know everything, thing? If you were talking to a friend, or spouse and they started to show/tell you something but then said nevermind, you wouldn't be interested, would you completely forget the conversation and mind your own business or would you need to know what it was just for curiosity sake?
Inquiring minds want to know…you know, because Nyrae is nosey and has to know ALL things! LOL.
PS If this kind of thing shows up in a book, you'll know where it came from. It wouldn't be the first time I used something he did in a book ;)